What pleasures come with chastity and wearing a cage?
The wearing of modern chastity cages is far removed from medieval legends and has become a genuine societal phenomenon, especially in Europe and the United States. Yet, it remains a taboo subject that requires new informational resources to understand what drives men to try the cage experience and perhaps even join them yourself. In this regard, you will soon find all the information within my knowledge compiled in a book, with the renowned illustrator Sardax himself crafting the cover.
In the meantime, what I can say here if you're discovering this practice is that it appeals to a broad audience of varied sexual orientations and preferences (heterosexual, homosexual, transgender). No, it's not some 'thing for sick perverts'; it's primarily about exploration and self-giving. Anyone can have the desire and need to experiment with something different from the four positions commonly accepted by society. Discovering what happens when a man loses control of his sex and surrenders it to the person of his choice is absolutely fascinating! Therefore, the cage often fits into the framework of a consensual adult domination/submission game.
In a heterosexual relationship, for example, the man who gives control of his sexuality to his dominant partner quickly becomes docile, attentive, and loving. He becomes entirely dependent on his partner, who now occupies the central place as if by magic. The psychological and physical constraint awakens all senses of the caged individual; their femininity, more or less buried, surfaces, and their libido is heightened. The sensations of desire for their partner are intensified and nearly constant, ultimately converting into complete devotion with very little time.
It's almost incredible to realize how conditioned man is by his sexuality and how easily he can evolve based on the control he has over it. The caged submissive man allows the heterosexual couple to create an alternative to the outdated patriarchal system, which is long surpassed in our era. It gives women the opportunity to access the place they have long deserved for their beauty and intelligence: Elevated to the status of goddess and in charge of the couple's sexuality for its benefit. By taking control of a man's sexuality, women also reclaim all their power in society.
Taking the step:
Firstly, you'll need to determine, based on your lifestyle, measurements, and goals, what type of cage will best suit you and bring you the greatest satisfaction. Here, we only create metal cages, but they also exist elsewhere in hard, brittle plastic, soft silicone, wood, and leather. All these models are very unsatisfactory in terms of comfort and hygiene, especially if the goal is to wear them for extended periods. Metal is by far the cleanest and most comfortable to wear.
There are plenty of cheap metal models from China. They are useful for getting a first idea of your needs before coming to us. You will quickly realize that these cages are impossible to wear for more than a day or two because they almost never fit your morphology properly and have finishing defects that can be painful or end up rusting. Hence the need for custom-made cages and flawless craftsmanship with materials of impeccable quality for those who want to 'play' seriously.
Once the desire is transformed into actions, things go better if they happen smoothly, listening to the pace of each person, whether it's for the submissive or the dominant. Allow time for Madame to settle comfortably into her new role. Similarly, you will likely need several attempts before you can wear a cage 24/7 for long periods.
Your penis and scrotal skin will gradually adjust to the chastity cage. We use 316L stainless steel, which is best suited for the skin. Over time, the wearer acclimates and eliminates the minor injuries from the beginning, which can extend continuous wear each time. The skin will slowly become more resistant until completely accepting your new prison. We recommend close monitoring by the dominant, releasing the bird at the slightest injury, and waiting for complete healing before the next confinement.
What determines more than anything the comfort of a cage is that it is made for you, with exact dimensions that fit yours. You could try dozens of 'one-size-fits-all' cages and still search for your happiness if the standard sizes on the market don't suit you.
The cage should be small, fitting the penis in its completely relaxed state, possibly slightly compressed in length. No gap should appear to ensure support, the quality of the caged sensation, and to protect against painful nocturnal erections that can prevent sleep.
Here are the typical elements that determine the measurements of a cage:
- Internal diameter of the base ring, which goes behind the testicles around the scrotum (average value Ø45mm)
- Internal diameter of the tube, which contains the penis (average value Ø35)
- Length of the tube (Average value 60mm)
- Space between the base ring and the tube (to prevent the testicles from escaping, average value = 10mm)
What are the risks?
Wearing a cage doesn't pose significant risks as long as certain points are respected:
- Maintaining good hygiene.
- Not insisting on wearing the cage if your genitals are injured or have hygiene-related issues.
- Not wearing during activities that could lead to violent impacts
- It's preferable to have periods of break with the cage, including intense sexual activity, where the penis can regain its full potential. If you alternate balanced periods of freedom and being caged, you won't have problems with erections or a decrease in penis size due to the cage. Some prefer to spend as little time as possible out of their chaste periods; they take these risks fully aware because their goal is to decrease their potential and/or penis size. These individuals represent only a small percentage of practitioners (around 3%, contrary to what a recent reductionist mainstream article published in "Libération" claims).
- Not wearing during passage through airport security checkpoints (metal detectors sound!), if you want to avoid public embarrassment.
- Keeping a spare key for the submissive in case of emergency. This key can be kept in a sealed envelope so that the dominant is aware of its potential use. The excuse better be a good one!
A chaste yet highly sexual experience!
Obviously, in this context, it's not about chastity consisting of preserving oneself before marriage or any religious dogma. The goal here is to fuel sexual pleasure in another way, in a word, to ENJOY!
The one who holds the keys can indulge in ordering eternal massages, very thorough lickings... But also imposing lifestyle rules to their liking, which, with discipline, will become the bible of the chaste man.
It takes time to truly delve into all the pleasures of chastity. Generally, in the submissive, we observe in the first few days a phase of excitement, then quickly a stage of aggression due to the inability to control one's own sexual needs. Then comes a form of surrender, acceptance, a transition to something stronger and nobler. Then begins the real pleasure of being caged, the nirvana of the submissive who enters into total adoration and finds themselves naturally elevating their behavior towards their dominant. It's an extremely cerebral pleasure, a change in consciousness that makes one want to be kept. No matter the period accomplished without sex, even if it is necessary and desired, liberation is always anxiety-inducing for the chaste man.
Everyone experiences chastity games at their own pace and in their own way. For example, some couples may share their year like this: around 6 months of chastity for the submissive man, 4 months of more 'classic' sexuality, and 2 months where the woman explores her taste for submission in turn. Some use the cage only to play for a few hours before making love, as a prelude, while others make it a way of life. Many couples operate on the sole pattern where the man is submissive and wears his cage permanently throughout the year. In the most extreme situations, with periods of several months without release or orgasm. It's up to you to feel what best suits your sensitivity and that of your partner, in order to create the best emotional balance for each.
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